Having visited many people who were very sick or dying, I have noticed that different people handle pain, sorrow, and their own mortality in different ways. Some are afraid, while others seem courageous. There are some who want to isolate themselves from other people, including their families. Then, there are those who want others with to be them. In a few cases, I have had the privilege of witnessing Christians meet death with a peaceful assurance of a better life to come.
At some time or other, all of us will face pain, sorrow, and death. When that time comes, how can we handle it?
Let’s learn some lessons from Jesus. When He entered the Garden of Gethsemane for prayer on the night before His crucifixion, He was greatly distressed, troubled, and covered with sorrow. He knew agonizing pain and death were just around the corner. He was under tremendous physical and emotional stress. So, He turned to His Heavenly Father. The Bible tells us, 33 He took Peter, James and John along with him, and he began to be deeply distressed and troubled. 34 “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death,” he said to them. “Stay here and keep watch.” 35 Going a little farther, he fell to the ground and prayed that if possible the hour might pass from him. (Mark 14:33-35 NIV)
Maybe you can relate to Jesus being overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. It’s a terrible feeling. In this case, Jesus knew what was coming and His human nature wanted to avoid it.
I encourage you to read Mark 14:32-42 to learn how Jesus prayed. However, I want you to notice the outcome of His prayers. Something happened in the garden to change His demeanor. 41 Returning the third time, he said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Enough! The hour has come. Look, the Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. 42 Rise! Let us go! Here comes my betrayer!” (Mark 14:41 NIV)
What a remarkable transformation occurred as a result of Jesus’ prayers. We can hear the courage in His voice. He acts physically stronger and more energetic. And, He shows amazing resolve and confidence in the face of His imminent arrest and crucifixion.
The Bible tells us that God sent an angel to strengthen Him in the garden. While He can still do that for us today, more often He uses other ways to strengthen us as a result of our prayers. For example, the Holy Spirit can bring us peace when we read appropriate passages from the Bible. Also, He may use other people, especially fellow Christians, to give us the support we need. Or, He may give encouragement by showing us how our situation fits into His holy plan.
Certainly, God wants to meet us in our garden of prayer, especially when we face pain, sorrow, or death. Don’t forget, He is waiting for you there.
Remember, God loves you and so do I.
Phil
Copyright © 2010 Philip Walter